location
The Arnold House
839 Shandelee Rd
Livingston Manor, NY 12758
dress code
Festive, cozy and fun! It will be peak leaf peeping season, so let’s celebrate the colorful foliage around us.
The entire weekend will take place at the Arnold House
Friday
We’ll be welcoming guests with a garden party at the bluestone patio at 6:30. Passed Hors d'oeuvres and a selection of local wine, beer and NA cocktails will be served.
Saturday
Before the ceremony, there will be several different activities for guests to choose from in the surrounding area. Options include visiting an Alpaca Farm, a tasting at Upward Brewery and private hiking trails on Arnold House’s expansive 80+ acres. Closer to the wedding date, we will also be providing a list of our favorite things to do in the western catskills.
The Ceremony will begin promptly at 4:30 PM in the greenhouse. Please arrive at 4pm for a toast to kick off the celebration.
After the ceremony, guests will be invited to enjoy golden hour by the bonfire, where cocktails, passed hors d'oeuvres, and a fluffy surprise will be waiting for them.
As the sun sets, a farm to table dinner will be served in the barn, followed by music and dancing in the greenhouse.
There will be an afterparty in the tavern, starting at 11pm - where diner food will be available.
Sunday
There will be a continental breakfast (for early travelers) followed by a larger brunch (for late sleepers) available Sunday morning in Shandelee Hall, where we can say our goodbyes before travel.
Explore the Arnold House. here’s a handy map to help you find your way.
Kindly list all names attending, separated by commas.
Lily + jack
Livingston Manor, NY
Jack (and bike) 2002
Lily (and Rosie) 2002
registry
Coming SOON
Travel
transportation
Livingston Manor, NY is 115 miles from NYC - about a 2 hour and 15 minute drive from Manhattan.
Be aware that The Arnold house is relatively remote, and guests need a car to get around locally throughout the weekend.
For those travelling from outside of NY, there are several airports to choose from
62 miles from Livingston Manor
113 miles from Livingston Manor
115 miles from Livingston Manor
135 miles from Livingston Manor
For local travel, the Short Line Hudson bus has a route to Livingston Manor, through Monticello. It is also possible to take the bus to Monticello, and take a short cab ride to Arnold House.
We will be providing bus transportation during Saturday that will be doing a round of pick ups and drop offs at our blocked off Hotels. More details to follow.
stay
We have set up room blocks at several local hotels
THE RED ROSE MOTEL
Send an email to the following address with the subject line - Jack and Lily Wedding Oct 18th howdy@theredrosemotel.com
Roscoe Motel
15 Rooms Available
Use Code: MULLIN
Days Inn Windham Liberty
30 Rooms Available
Use Code: Lily&Jack Wedding Block
Air Bnb & rental Cabins
We have put together a curated list of select Airbnbs and rental Cabins in the area
Other Local Hotels
Postcard Cabins
Trout Town Inn
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